Thoughts on Suicide

As an author, I’ve poured my heart into my blog and my children’s books, like Discovering Misty: The Mermaid of the Emerald Coast and George and the Brave Eagle, to share stories that spark joy and connection for young readers and their families. Through my writing, I aim to inspire hope and resilience, themes that resonate deeply with the vital work of recognizing and responding to the warning signs of suicide.

Most people in crisis don’t truly want to die—they’re searching for relief from overwhelming physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual pain. As someone who writes to uplift, I’ve learned that listening closely to those around us can make all the difference. My blog, which recently celebrated its 500th visitor, is a space where I share not just my stories but also messages of care and community—values that align with helping those in need.

You might hear someone say, “I don’t care if I die” or “Everyone would be better off without me.” These are cries for help, often accompanied by behaviors like:

• Searching for ways to end their life

• Expressing feelings of hopelessness or having no purpose

• Talking about feeling trapped or in unbearable pain

• Feeling like a burden to others

• Increasing alcohol or drug use

• Giving away cherished possessions without reason

• Acting anxious, agitated, or reckless

• Withdrawing from loved ones or isolating themselves

• Showing rage or talking about revenge

• Experiencing extreme mood swings

As I write about characters like Misty and Moriah, who face challenges with courage and friendship, I’m reminded that a single warning sign might not signal a crisis. But if someone has a history of attempts, or you notice sudden changes or multiple signs, it’s time to act. Resources like suicide.ChurchofJesusChrist.org and free crisis helplines offer guidance on how to help someone in need.

Promoting my books on platforms like Amazon and through my GoFundMe campaign for George and the Brave Eagle has taught me the power of connection. Just as I reach out to readers to share stories of hope, we can reach out to those struggling with compassion and urgency. Not every suicide can be prevented—sometimes there are no clear warnings, and we’re not responsible for another’s choice. My family has personally experienced the effects of suicide. My own little brother, an uncle, and another close relative committed suicide, breaking their family’s hearts. But by listening, noticing, and acting, we can offer the kind of hope that my stories aim to spread, one heart at a time.

Shirley